[lost in hamilton]

hi i am new here so hope i am in the right spot.
i am running windows 7 and have downloaded the new version of desktop manager. all has been well until yesterday. when i synced it updated BB software and eliminated all my calendar entries from my outlook 2007 desktop.
I discovered that in addition to the default email it had created another email. i have tried to sync from BB to desk because all the calendar appt.s are on the BB didn't work. When I sync it does the contacts and then it starts to do the calendar, says one minute please and then stops syncing and returns to the desktop manager. Tried to export from the .pst files but that didn't do a thing.
did a hard reboot. no change. reloaded the desktop software no change.
and that is why i am lost in hamilton.
any ideas? I am on Bell and it is a home network.
thanks
Update. I discovered i was missing the CICC? file with my email address so i resent the service books did a hard reset and it synced but did not show up on outlook 2007