I haven't been here all that long myself, but certainly, welcome to these forums.
Would you be happy with a third-party product doing the just-like-a-car-kit trick?
Com One makes a portable BT stereo speaker that fits that description - it's stereo and BT2 again.
Several of the clip-on-the-visor BT car kits can also work indoors to give you your speakerphone function.
But, if you don't mind me saying so, I think you're in that equip-me-now frenzy that we all experience early on.
Everything changes.
The O/S 4.5 upgrade will be downloadable in just a few weeks - summer's end at the latest - and with that comes BT2 support.
Of course, that's almost the same timetable as the BlackBerry 9000 Bold, the lust for which can drive a sane man crazy and throw caution - and money - to the wind.
Your eagerness now for the PC-as-speakerphone trick will seem trivial when even newer passions boil your blood.
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