This is still really bumming me out. I've uninstalled and reinstalled the app, changed my AIM password and my Google password (in an effort to invalidate the agents at anywise?), and deleted the 150 or so AIM/anywise entries in my GTalk account from the Windows side--all to no avail. leyb85 suggested manually sending XML unsubscribe commands via telnet to anywise, but I've struck out trying to find any suggestions on how to do this.
The "it only happens once per contact" concept doesn't seem to apply to me. I launch the app, log in, get "command failed", lock up, then the app dies per above.
I wonder if it's my BB OS? Any other suggestions? I really miss this app while travelling, and I travel often. Even today!