Curve 8330m is my choice!
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I just finished handling the RIM BlackBerry Tour 9630 and compared it to my RIM BlackBerry Red Curve 8330m and just for the feel in the hands and the looks of both, I have to stick with my Curve.
The Tour is slightly longer and thinner then the Curve. The width is the same but seems narrower because of the thinner and longer profile of the Tour. The Tour just doesn't feel as good in the hand. (I use my Curve in an OtterBox Defender case which even adds more length, width, and thickness, but I took it out of the case to compare the two side by side.)
Also, I do not like the looks of the Tour compared to the Red Curve. The red makes the Curve look richer and not as cheezy as the Tour with the chrome color around the black. Also being the Tour is a bit longer and thinner, the overall profile doesn't look good, in my opinion. The Tour doesn't look as well built or as solid because of the slightly different size and chrome color framing. Kind of looks weird.
As far as the Tour's operation goes, I didn't really get to play with it much other than even though there are more pixels in the Tour's screen images, I didn't see much to any difference in clarity or beauty of the background or wallpapers.
With this all in mind and after I compared the two in hand, I must stick with my present red Curve which gives me everything I could possibly ever want.
Curve will remain my choice of the two.